Puss And Dee.

[Jeza]

Off to bed now. Have emailed.

[Caran]

Not cliquey just friendly and looking out for our friends.

[cupid04]

Goodnight Jeza, sleep well. Love to Mic. x

[baza]

one mans clique is another mans conspiracy theory.

[gness]

Welcome, Whirly.....when you've been around a little longer you'll be able to say for sure whether we're a clique or not....but Jeza's going through too much for you to be agreeing with Mojojo on this thread.
Again....in time you will know that too...but we can't keep going back over stuff to include those who haven't been in at the beginning...you'll cop on as we all did.....but try to remember this is Jeza's little sanctuary at the moment.........☺
And it may be a while before you get a reply from Mojojo.

Night, Jeza...hope you get a good night and the best to Mic....xx

[gness]

Baza belongs to the deep and profound clique.....it has two members....☻

[Caran]

Thank you gness for putting Jeza's point of view forward. She needs as much help as we can muster on here.

[gness]

Hi, Caran...I'm sure Whirley didn't mean to be unkind but it's best to be aware of people's circumstances before commenting I think....and Jeza has been to hell and back....well I'm not sure she's all the way back yet but she seems to be a tough cookie.....no choice I guess.....☺☺

[Caran]

You've summed it up just about right there gness.

[Prudie]

Nothing gives more firepower to the 'exclusive' debate than saying you have to know every ABer's private situation before you post. I can fully understand why Jeza put up this thread as I saw the ealrlier one and would probably have done so myself in her circumstances.
However I also see what Mojo-jo-jo was saying, it was just a quick response and on a different person's thread she would not have been jumped on, quite meanly in my opinion. Anyway she got her punishment it seems.

[gness]

Prudie...did you see the complete thread?

Why people are so insecure if someone posts FAO is beyond me...especially when all of those people have done so themselves. Barring Whirly yet I think. What purpose does it serve other than perhaps upsetting someone?

It such a trivial thing to have to comment on let alone get your knickers in a twist over.

[baza]

do not mention knickers , sqad may be about. ^^^^

[Sqad]

baza........oi!........they HAVE to be silk......or satin.

[Prudie]

Gness , no I didn't see the removed post, I assume that's the offending one, but have read everything else this morning.
I just think Mojo was the first to respond (and she was agreed with) and then it went on that that because Jeza's having such a bad time Mojo shouldn't have said anything. I still think she was jumped on quite meanly for something she may have said without malice or much aforethought.

[royfromaus]

I think it is appalling if Mojo-Jo-Jo has been suspended because of her contribution on this thread. Have Puss or Dee even contributed to it?

[gness]

My main point is, Prudie......the need to get so bothered by an FAO..... whether or not the poster is having a bad time or on top of the world... I truly don't understand the angst over it.....

Why would they, Roy.....they made an offer on AnswerBank.....Jeza has responded and we now know that Jeza is having help from people who have the information that may be of use to her and Mic.....nice thing for this site to be able to offer don't you think?....Newbies can see that there are some really kind people on here when you're in a bad place.

[Baldric]

FAO someone other than me,
I very rarely look at the thread, why would I?
And I certainly wouldn't lose any sleep over it,
How insecure would you have to be to do that?

[woofgang]

Its not like this is the only thread on AB or that the majority of ABer's know what is going on with only a few excluded. TBH if you feel that you need to know everything about every post on here then maybe ChatterBank isn't for you? CB is like a pub or other group situation where you mix with close friends, friends, acquaintances and complete strangers, in those circs you don't join in all the conversations and people will make private as well as public comments. If you can't get along with that IMO, then don't come into CB.

[AB Editor]

Morning all, this is getting a bit out of hand now, so I will be closing this thread.

Please try to be civil to each other we prefer it that way :-)