Condolences

[langara]

i need the words to say sorry to my brother-in-law on the loss of his Mum a few days ago. She was in her 90's and had been quite ill for a while and also had dementia. I have written down a few things but most sound a bit pompous or old fashioned,or even condescending. Help needed, Thanks

[ummmm]

Is he religious?

When my dad died a friend put in the card 'Your loss is Gods gain' which I found touching.

[dunnitall]

"A light from your life has gone but will shine brightest in your memory as time goes on"

[scooping]

Like that ummmm

[woofgang]

say what is in your heart. seriously.

[pixie373]

I think just say that you're sorry and maybe a few nice memories you have of her? Be careful not to suggest it's a release or similar, just that she'll be missed.

[doormat2014]

Just tell him you're sorry for his loss, but she's with him all the time now, and now she is in no more pain, and is happy.

[EDDIE51]

^^ Mumbai florist is advertising, reported.

[murraymints]

Thinking of you at this very sad time.....

[flump1]

I echo what Pixie has said about the life span of the deceased, it can be hurtful to be on the receiving end of, well they had a good innings, or, it was a happy release. These are left to the bereaved if they want to say them. Although this lady as old and had been ill for a while she was still the world to him, I would imagine ( as mums are ) so a few thoughts of your own , with the offer of a chat when ready would be lovely.