Bail - "Am I still allowed to do this ?"
From the Crown Prosecution Service website:
15. Where there is a condition not to contact the victim, it does not matter if the victim has agreed to or initiated any contact with the defendant. It is the defendant who is subject to the bail conditions. The defendant, and not the victim, is responsible for complying with any conditions imposed by the police or the court until released from those conditions by the police or court (see Annex B).
http://www.cps.gov.uk/publications/prosecution/domestic/domv.html#a07