seriously are you getting really so concerned about getting your OH a gift appropriate to your anniversary? he's a man -he won't have a clue its a 'paper' anniversary . Is he getting uptight about what to get you? I would be a bit miffed getting a paper gift anyway, a nice piece of jewelry to celebrate one year together would be a better idea. We've been married 23 yers but never bought gifts for each other, I don't need a 'reward' for sticking with him (actually I probably do come to think of it). Go for a romantic picnic weather permitting, or a romantic meal.