My Question For Today

[lady-janine]

what do all of you think i should do about my inability? it does make me feel inferior- boo hoo.

[tiggerblue10]

Inability to do what, L-J?

[Henrietta]

Inability or disability should never get you down! Take life smiling and ignore those that are negative I always say.

[lady-janine]

just lately I never seem to be able to do anything properly without having my faults pointed out. basic insecurity I suppose.

don't even think this should be in chatterbank perhaps body and soul.

[murraymints]

Lady..get a fast train to Edinburgh...bring Gness ..it could be brilliant !!!...carnage....but brilliant...:0)

[lady-janine]

minty that sound fun. do I have to bring my hammer drill with me?

[stuey]

Lady J, how in heaven can you be inferior? I always pictured you as a mother-superior.

[petal54]

Don't let others put you down,you are fine as you are,st--f the rest!

[murraymints]

Hammer fine ..I think it would be safer to leave the drill at home ! Lol.

[tiggerblue10]

I think we have all been there at one time or another L-J. This happened to me at work a few years ago. I had a manager who found fault in everything I did and in the end I went off sick with work-related stress. I put in a grievance against him and he was moved out of my team.

No, you are definitely not inferior L-J. Ask whoever it is that is making you feel this way what their problem is. It sounds like they are the one with the problem and not you.

[lady-janine]

thank you for all your support. unfortunately this feeling is something that goes back years. most of the time i'm fine just get a bit low at times. thank you again.

[tonyav]

From what I have heard, lj you and minty would be better off travelling to Devon with your hammers and drills !.

[DaisyNonna]

You could not be more inept than I am LJ. I practice!

[Jeza]

An inferiority complex is just that, a complex don't let the bar stewards grind you down. Stand up for your self, I know it is hard. I learnt the hard way by standing Mics corner.

[Tilly2]

People can only make you fell inferior if you let them.

[lady-janine]

yes thanks tilly and jeza. I know that. it is just sometimes. . . . . .