Is He Being British Or He Just Dont Want To Go To Second Date With Me?

[KingsAlex]

So I met this guy on tinder, he's British and without further a do, he asked me out for a drink in the next evening, and i said yes.

he picked a nice restaurant&bar, my favorite actually.
we had couple of drinks before he must go, because someone called him, and he replied 'i'll be there in couple of minutes'.

at first, the waiter asked if him if he wanted to open tab, and he said yes. so when the bill came, to my own regret, i didn't offer him to pay, because (and this is my only justification) the waiter went straight to him immediately when settling the bill.
I'm not British, but whenever I go on a date, i always offer to pay for the bill. so I got confuse about the whole keep the tab open and who would pay.

He walked me home, and i said thank you for the night, and thanks for the drinks. i kissed him on both cheeks, and then he left. right after i walked in my flat, i got a text from him that say he had fun, and it was nice to see me and put an x at the end of it.
to which i only replied with likewise but i also added an x.

before we met for a drink, he suggested me to add his facebook, which i politely decline because sharing a social media with someone you don't know is a bit privacy-is-dead-situation for me.

the next day came, and he didn't sent me text or anything. i added his fb and he has not approved.

do brit guys play the three-day rules or something? i mean, if he really had fun, then why wouldn't he suggest for another meeting?
is he simply putted off by me who didn't do dancing cheque by offering to pay the bill?
and last question, this is a bit embarrassing for me to ask actually. whenever I went out on a first date with a guy, when we said goodnight, they always kiss me on the lips. nothing over the top, just a normal polite kiss on the lips.
and with this Brit guy, we did not kiss lips. was he being polite? or he was not just physically attracted to me?

i know that my questions might sound silly, but i'm not british, and i'm just confused about the dating rule here.
thank you in advance for your replies xx

[tonyav]

Probably, EDDIE.

[Obiter]

//Or is it 'one drink and a sh*g' territory ? //

Used to cost me a damn sight more than one drink to achieve a sh*g!

[tonyav]

That probably wasn't in Sweden though, Obiter.

[Obiter]

No, but the money I used to fork out on brandy and Babychams (aka knickerdroppers) was horrendous, whilst all I could afford for myself was a pint of mild. Wouldn't have minded if it paid dividends but more often than not it didn't so I would go home a sadder and very much poorer boy.

[EDDIE51]

You don't want to drink too much and end up with 'brewers droop'

[tonyav]

Ah so you fell for the brandy and babysham plot as well, Obiter.

[askyourgran]

Suckers!

[tonyav]

Doh.

[EDDIE51]

A guy I worked with used to just ask straight out ''Any chance of a sh*g?'' I asked him why he did it and he said '' well if you do get an answer other than outright refusal at least you are not wasting time on the no hopers'

[Obiter]

Cherry B was a similar concoction designed to loosen the elastic but but again with the same lack of success.

[EDDIE51]

I wouldn't sleep with a girl who drank Cherry B even the smell of the stuff made me want to throw up.

[boxtops]

I guess the OP has given up on the tales of your past exploits.... but what she describes certainly isn't what I'd call a "dating rule" here, unless you're just in it for a fast pickup - in which case a second meeting is pretty unlikely. IMO.