Chaps....

[Slapshot]

as it happens both ways and the answerbank is an gender equal site....and we'd rather not see the inference that all chaps are gropers and pervs....!!

... this question emanates from a thread in News. Who among you has not at some time in your life been touched inappropriately by a WOMAN who was not your Girlfriend/Spouse and whose attentions were unwelcome? I don't mean 'rape' - I mean groped.

Fairs Fair

[gness]

In fairness, Slappy.....Naomie did say...a man....could be the same one man groping us all.......☺

[naomi24]

^Haaaaaa! Very good. :o)

[ummmm]

I can honestly say that I've never groped a man in my life.

[joggerjayne]

In the clubs around here, especially at the Pride Week all nighter, you get ... oh, hang on, I've just noticed it says "unwelcome" ... okay, just ignore me.

[Postdog]

Don't know if serious answers are wanted here, but I have been inappropriately touched by a woman and didn't like it. Had I liked her in the same way, I daresay I would have responded or not cared. However I was far from interested and nipped it in the bud there and then.

I have also misinterpreted signals myself and suffered and or apologised, which is how adults should deal with it rather than running to a court years later.

[mrs_overall]

I have tightly gripped a stranger's testicles whilst telling him what I was going to do with them once I had ripped them off? Does this count as groping a man?
(BTW he had just groped my daughter)

[gness]

That might be groping with a capital G, MrsO...x

[whiskeryron]

Please give mrs o best answer.

[Slapshot]

I have been groped and it was very unwanted, it was my wife's friend, never mentioned it before.... i just said no

[mrs_overall]

lol, thank you for best answer :-)

[Slapshot]

Intriguing that this has more comments than the original

[237SJ]

.."A bit of an unpleasant inference about men in general" Where`s that then? I can`t see it.

[Slapshot]

View as you will... my perception.... if thats ok

[mrs_overall]

sorry about that slapshot. I blame Gness for digressing

[Baldric]

Many times, especially in Uniform, am I going to complain/did I complain,
NO Way!
Grow up fgs!

[DTCwordfan]

I was - in South Korea.

The Lotte Hotel lift it was, the hotel the best local Korean establishment.

I was going up in the lift with the ex alongside, a local woman in the lift, circa 30ish. It was summertime and I was wearing a golf shirt.

The next thing was that the Korean leaned across and put her hand INSIDE my golf shirt to feel my chest hair.

Before we could really even say anything, being speechless, the door opened and she disappeared.

Apparently, the women there see western men as being much more benign and that may be true as there are plenty of girls walking around sporting real eye bruisers. Misbehave, say something out of turn and 'whack' - very nice, I must say. Then they have a fascination with hairs on the chest, most of their men naked or having just a light covering, despite the black hair.

[Slapshot]

Thats cool Mrs O, I hoped that kind of answer would appear

[naomi24]

//Intriguing that this has more comments than the original //

If you take the trouble to read and actually think about the answers on each thread, not intriguing at all.

[RATTER15]

As a child of 14 I was groped by a patient at our local Mental Hospital (as they were then called) I was on a bus when this guy just leaned over me and grabbed me, I was shocked, a little worried but not distressed. I didn't lose any sleep over it.

I had been groped by girls in my younger days but not these days. I cant say it was unwelcome, never thought much about it to be honest.

[Peter Pedant]

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I will join you on that one Ratter -
I was at a school where one of the masters is now doing time
A lot of the boys discussed it at the time and just got on with our lives....


My sister was at a skool ( oops where were we brought up ?) where the Music master had made the wrong kind of music with a girl.
She was bawled out in Skool Assembly ! well those were the days.
She spent her time wondering if the local doctor had dobbed her in to the Head Master whereas everyone knew it was the bump out the front which had given the game away. The muzak master had also to blow down his flute somewhere else.

that is what I worry about with these historical cases
are memories that accurate over 40 y ?

but they make good stories