I have read a bit online but find it all a little confusing to be fair. Is going on the pill detrimental to me and having a baby in the future? I hate using condoms because I find they hurt me I don't know why.
yes, but she asked you a question first, and as you "don't know what she's going on about" can't really understand why you answered, except to comment on her sex life.
Regardless of her sex life, or how many partners she may (or may not!) have,
I've always found the mini-pill to be good with regards to less side-effects.
It's not massively reliable though, so chat with your nurse beforehand as she'll be able to advise you much better than any of us can.
I also hate condoms. They totally ruin the mood, and feel minging! :-)
and the pill does not affect fertility in any way - have you not heard of people missing a few/taking antibiotics (which make them ineffective) and getting pregnant? look at the nhs website for full information - it tells you everything you need to know.....x
i have said it before and here it comes again, The pill does not protect against STD's! If you find that using condoms is painful then maybe more lubrication is needed?
I might give it a go though. Tamborine how long were you on it for? btw I just noticed your avatar. The M looks like the birth position of a woman hehe that makes me chuckle.