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there is not a lot of damage - it was just a minor bump - we were both stationary at a roundabout and he moved off because he thought i had, but a van came speeding round so i was edging out but didnt go.
however i have a towbar - and his car got stuck on it, it shoved the towbar out of alignment, loosened the exhaust and pushed the bumper forward.
there is no effect on the car working, and the bumper just looks a bit creased.
he was very nice and apologetic etc- i have photos of his car stuck to mine - it was almost amusing to be stuck at the edge of a massive roundabout at rush hour unable to move until he lifted his car up with jack...
no damage to his car really, it just pushed his grill out but it just popped back in.
no injuries or anything
wondering why my mechanic told me to ring his insurer and tell them i dont want to involve my own insurers ...
i will sort it and ring tomorrow.
thanks all