Friend?

[Rubyrose]

How do you know when you have mistaken a good friendship for something more?

If you get on really well with someone and do find them attractive, but there are many reasons you shouldn't be together.. is that just your brain misunderstanding and thinking that because you and this person have a connection, that there should be something more to it? Or do these 'connections' not come along often enough to be ignored and wait for the next one?

[treacle84]

I think if you find you have a connection with another person then you shouldn't ignore it. Unless that person is happy with someone else anyway. Special connections don't come along very often so I'd definitely look into it furthur :) x

[Rubyrose]

Thanks Treacle! Its quite a tricky situation though :o(

[Scarlett]

I think so long as that person is single, go with your instincts!!!! You get that chemistry for a reason, don't you! And it doesn't come along every day!!

[Rubyrose]

As long as they are single yes! Oh bu88er :o(

[treacle84]

Aren't they single Ruby? Oh dear. Tough one then...

A while ago I would have been selfish and said all is fair in love and war but my boyfriend has been pursued by someone recently and he couldn't see it and it caused us problems. Sorted now but it was a horrid time.

[Rubyrose]

No they aren't I'm afraid Treacle, but its even more tricky than that! Its not actually an issue because nothing will ever come of it but I am interested to know what other thoughts are on having a connection with someone and ignroing it! :o)

xx

[peterd]

This is a really tough one, I guess only the subject person knows. I believe it comes down to fate & personality If it's meant to happen it will happen

[GuyIncognito]

I wouldnt, if she went with you then how could you ever trust her with other people