2 Bros Still Very Ill

[jennyjoan]

Both refuse to go ito hospital - one in Scotland and in Ireland. Both are in lyinjg in so much mysery. Howewver sons can only on their best.

Daughter loookig afte Scottish guy - has been in hosp[ital and out - is signhing him seof too too ired to go on. talk to to you tomorrow.

[Mamyalynne]

Oh Conne,my heart goes out to you - in truth you can do nothing if they won't accept help.

Try to get some sleep.

[gness]

Conne....don't you be fretting about what you can't change.....if they refuse to go into hospital you can do nothing about it....put on the kettle and have a cuppa now...and don't worry.....x

[bunkmoreland]

jj, hard as it is to accept,you cannot affect their choices and you must now help yourself to keep strong for you. Please look after yourself,and be kind to you. x

[Ann]

Sorry to hear your bad news too Conne - everyone seems to be suffering this week. Good advice from Gness - have a cuppa and then try to get a peaceful night's sleep x

[flump1]

Bless you Connie, a hug for you ((( hug ))) x

[Peter Pedant]

hope it goes OK

independence comes at a high price ( they dont know when they need help )

xmas hug

[jennyjoan]

thank you - don't know much more this morning. Except daughter looking after Scottish bloke has now been told she is pathetically thin and her mother (who is estranged from my brother) says brother is to blame. Frankly I understand the mother as the kid is only 7 stone dealing with a 15 stone man along with a little boy of 8. I worry about her cracking up (daughter). There are another brother and sister but they dont want to know.


We think he needs hospital care (they say there are no beds) and anyway he would sign him self out. Same for other brother - then again same situation - only he has girl and 4 other sons (2 share the brunt) other 2 just pop in. That's it folks. JjCon