This "rape" Business.

[Sqad]

I find it all very complicated and each case needs deciding on it's "merits" and in a composed an calm manner.

Violent outright rape by someone who is not known to the victim is horrendous and this is accepted by us all.

But women vary so much as to their needs and requirements which now would be accepted and regarded by the lay as ..."rape."

But is it?

Personal examples:

In my younger days i talk a girl to see the film "Straw Dogs" where Susan George was raped by an old boyfriend.The scene was quite explicit and at first, she resented the intrusion, but later, clearly enjoyed the experience.
On the way back to her cottage, which was in a small village, she asked me if i would tie her to the bed and rape her, although saying that she would struggle and resist.

Another of my female staff, admitted to me at a social function that her fantasy was to be raped by Barry White...the black singer.

Another girlfriend asked me to look through her bungalow window whilst she was reading, her hair combed into a bun, break in via the kitchen and drag her into the bedroom and despite her resistance...rape her.

I could go on.

what is the point of my thread?

It follows perhaps the posts on Jed Evans.....i suppose, but mainly to highlight that each case should be taken on it 's merits and not have a blanket description of....rape.

[Peter Pedant]

// Every law student will know a person can go to prison for consensual sex where no complaint has been made. Admittedly the sex was more than just rough and was ABH and GBH but it was all consensual. //

had a bit of a double take on that one

this would be I think operation- spanner ? car jack ?

Men videoed each other shoving car jacks up each others jaxees
with consent - and got quite a lot of time in prison ( to do it there I suppose ). Court ruled you cant consent to GBH

at the time I kinda didnt think it was a sex case

[ummmm]

Why grubby? They are talking about the type of sex people indulge in where it could look like rape even if it was consensual. People get up to all sorts!

[ummmm]

True...very very true.