Parental Permission For Dating?

[skate9001]

I'm 14, and my parents haven't really spoken to my parents about dating. Whenever it is even briefly mentioned, they presume I am grossed out by guys, but I'm not. I don't have anyone in mind to fate, but I would like a clearer picture on what my parents think, and I can't bring it up myself.
is it okay to go out being their backs if I don't feel they'd support me?
what should I do?

[JeSuisCharlie]

I don't understand what you're trying to say?

If you want to know what your parents think then just ask them. You don't need permission to date someone just make sure you take all the precautions.

[NoMercy]

She's 14!!!

Any 14-year-old of mine would most certainly need permission.

[JeSuisCharlie]

NoMercy pas de pitié apologies. I do not have daughters.

[wildwood]

It is quite natural for girls your age to start wondering about relationships and sex. You certainly should not go out behind their back if they don't approve. You are a minor and they are responsible for you.

You may be surprised how understanding and supportive your parents may be if you discuss your apprehension with them. Remember, your parent were your age once.

At 14 there are many years of pleasurable 'young people' years ahead of you. Would it really be wise to tie your self down before you are 20 or so?

Enjoy being young

[ummmm]

My kids have never asked my permission to go on a date.

If it's a trip to the cinema or something similar then they just got on with it. They confide in me if/when it's more serious.

I always find it weird how we treat girls differently to boys.

[ummmm]

NoM...no disrespect but unless you follow them you'd have no idea what they're up to.

I gave my son money to go the the cinema, he phoned me a few hours later to say they'd changed their mind, he's at his (female) mates, but could he still keep the money.

[grasscarp]

I would wait until there is someone who asks you out. Then just tell them that you are going out with this person. They are unlikely to refuse as you are no longer a young child and are likely to have friends of both sexes.