Of course, a prime number is whatever mathematicians find it convenient to define as a prime number. Nature doesn't provide an over-riding answer.
There are some mathematical ideas which cover only the odd prime numbers, and there are others which cover the prime numbers and -1. Neither of them are important enough to re-define 'prime number' and elsewhere say 'the prime numbers and 2', or 'the positive prime numbers'.
Peter P. is at the real crux of the matter with the fact that, should 1 be included as a prime number, it would make it quite awkward to express the unique factorisation theorem - and for no obvious benefit, as I can't think of a single area where 'the prime numbers and 1' would be a useful aggregate concept.
However, in my much-prized copy of Chambers's Shorter Six-Figure Mathematical Tables, authored by L.J. Comrie and dated 1966, Table IX on pages 346-7 'Prime Numbers' starts with 1, not 2 (it goes up 12919).
Congratulations to your daughter.