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Is The Teacher Being Unfair With This ?
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I met a new friend at school and we are getting to be good friends (far as I can tell) anyways I had issues before with previous friendships not given them space etc ,anyways I learned from that. The teacher met with him and asked him if he had any problems with me hanging out with him and he said no. then she made a plan and she said we can no longer have lunches together and only can sit together once a week before school and we can say hi and have a small talk in the hall. We both had to agree with this ,Also she told me ,He is not ur friend ,you can only be friendly with him. She said we are teaching you too Personal space and limits with people. (he had some problems like i did but not with me ) is the teacher being unfair ? we are both in highschool
I met a new friend at school and we are getting to be good friends (far as I can tell) anyways I had issues before with previous friendships not given them space etc ,anyways I learned from that. The teacher met with him and asked him if he had any problems with me hanging out with him and he said no. then she made a plan and she said we can no longer have lunches together and only can sit together once a week before school and we can say hi and have a small talk in the hall. We both had to agree with this ,Also she told me ,He is not ur friend ,you can only be friendly with him. She said we are teaching you too Personal space and limits with people. (he had some problems like i did but not with me ) is the teacher being unfair ? we are both in highschool
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Seems a bit over the top, but it does depend on what you previous friendship issues were. You state that you didi not give people space, but i wonder what the effect of this was and how it impacted on the previous friend. Perhaps the school were involved and trying to protect you, the new friend and themselves from any further issues. Of course the simplest thing to do is meet outside of school.
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To be honest you attend school to study & learn from the school's curriculum, & although it is nice to make friends with people it is not really necessary in school & as has been suggested already you can obviously have your circle of friends outside of school, so I would echo the suggestion that you cool it & do as the teacher has decreed.