as above at the CU - I wanted to retort a few things myself but left well alone. however = found myself crying on the way home. should i have stood up for myself - felt cowarded. OVER NOW
I embassies the OH Often but not intentionally Jenny, that's the way I am, straight to the point, it offends a lot but do some people like to lie Instead, you should have said what you thought & get it off your chest.
TWR you really do go around saying things like:
what a lovely pair of tats to people and then find its the husband ! ?
Jay jay I am the opposite and say the funny things in public
and then spend the time in the car thinking ... hmmm that was a bit much.
f r instance
One work colleague praised his team with the words:
and like the girl in the fable - when she was good, she was very very good...
and I was gonna add ( luckily silent that time )
yeah and like Mae West when she was bad ---- she was better....
The colleague who can only be described as poncey at best on a good day was a lay preacher and was later outed for having an affair with a parishioner's wife.....
CU, credit union jj works there on a voluntary basis. I think we have all been in situations where in hindsight we wish we had '' said something'' but did not, don't dwell too much on it conne, we can't always change our personality to suit every occasion.