Mr Cake knows better than to invade my personal space.
A male friend who I was carrying a couple of items for in my bag soon learnt the error of his ways when I encountered him digging about in my bag. The scars took a while to heal........
I would also be very surprised to find Mr N looking through my bag, but I would not mind, he would have a valid excuse, there won't be hidden condoms, or love letters!
My hubby would never ever go through my handbag. Its not respectful, but there would be nothing in there of interest to him anyway.
If he was short of change for anything it would be no problem as we always shared everything, he would only have to ask.
Was he looking for some beer money. My husband never looks through my bag. Same as retro if I say it's in my bag he brings it over for me to get what ever.
Even if I ask Mr O to get something out of my bag, he hands me the bag rather than go in it.
If I caught him having a rummage I would only be mildly curious as by bag is usually full of old receipts and the odd item of makeup
Mr P only goes to my purse on a saturday morning to nip up shop and buy a newspaper while I'm still snoozing if my little coin dish is empty.
No problem at all.