New Boyfriend And Ex Boyfriend

[chickpea49]

I dated this guy for a year at work it was all very hush hush, he didn't treat me great and I ended up leaving my job to get away from him. Despite hi treating me badly I wish him well etc I wouldn't hold a grudge as I think things happens for a reason. Anyway the new guy I'm seeing also worked at the same company and whilst he didn't know about my ex in the spirit of being honest I told him who I was seeing and that he didn't treat me to well so I lost my confidence. They now work in the same department And my new boyfriend hates him and holds such a grudge towards him for something I went through. I have had no contact with my ex until yesterday when he called my office phone at my new job. He knows where I work and came through our switchboard as he doesn't have my phone numbers now. He was calling to tell me that my current boyfriend keeps checking his LinkedIn profile and it's getting really annoying as they work together and of he as something to say then go over and ask him. We actually had a nice chat and I got real closure from him. He told me that this was his last day at the company so they won't be around each other anymore. Do u tell my new boyfriend that I heard from him and about the LinkedIn stuff or keep quiet as now he has left hopefully we can all move on.

[Samuraisan]

Just keep quiet and forget about him. You don't have to tell your boyfriend everything that happens to you.

[Peaspeculiars]

It sounds like your ex BF was stirring - Why would he call you at your new job and moan about your new BF? and on his last day too?
Please ignore the old BF and get on with your new relationship. The call is obviously playing on your mind which is what the ex intended to happen. Don't let him get one over on you, brush it off and enjoy your new life.

[yogi-bear]

He's gone, so I wouldn't do anything and move on, chickpea x

[Lynn_M]

Ooh, if only we all could have one BF/GF (the right one) for life. No hurt and jealousy! I don't suppose your current BF enjoyed working with someone who's experienced intimacy with his GF. Who would?

You just have to keep quiet about some things, I suppose