I want to add my Mum's name to my Dad's tombstone. The lines of my Dad's details are sort of centralised ie top line - In Memory Of, next line - his christian name, next line - his two middle names, next line - his surname, next line -Loving husband and father next line - date of death next line - his age. My mum isn't buried there but I want her to be recorded as his wife. I don't know how to start it off. And his beloved wife (followed by her details) sounds ok in modern speak but I can't start off with "And". Any ideas?
You know that by the time you get the engraver to the cemetery (at least here in the U.S.) you could purchase a new marker worded exactly as you'd like it for a reasonable extra sum?
I've seen markers reworked as you are contemplating and it always reminded me of some using 'white out' on an important legal document... tsk, tsk, tsk...