glad to read that i'm not the only one with this same train of thought. I cannot abide by christmas cards, it seems such a crock - "to X, from Y" - no sincerity, no meaning, no thought. Also they are from people you see often or every day and can quite easily spend 5-10 minutes with and say nice words to, not some poxy card. I particularly detest cards from work colleagues (you see them every day!) and will consider this idea for next Christmas as it seems such a nicer thing to do. I do write a chosen few cards each christmas to people i wouldn't normally see throughout the year, and send messages of how things are going/how my family are (before you all cast your "scrooge" comments at me). Agree with sft42 - 4TH TIME THIS YEAR! - charity is about giving throughout the year, not at christmas out of guilt, so all please spare a thought for those that need it.