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I will tell you a bit more about this and why (I am his wife) I am feeling aggrieved, because when he nhap the op he was kept in for 2 nights (normal), and I went to collect him as required on the Friday afternoon at 4pm and whilst waiting for him to go to the toilet he called the nurse because he was passing blood instead of urine, but she said oh that ok, so we went home and from then on he was in ever increasing agony, just passing blood not urine but he did not want to go back into hospital , just get a doctor he said, well surgeries at 11pm closed so rang 111 and that was nightmare they prom,ised to call me back and I waited till 2 a.m.but no call-back by which time I was shattered, he had fallen asleep upstairs and I thought perhaps he will be better in the morning, but at 4am he woke me in agony and I called 111 again who said they had called me back at 2.25am - they called the out of hours doctor who sent him straight back into hospital where he remained for 5 weeks! 3 weeks of that was because they wanted to get a care package in order, they never told me he had to have his catheter bag changed weekly so he had the first one in for four weeks, and now the district nurses are going to show me how to change it for him!. All of this is absolute truth,and as he has dementia it is very hard work coping with it . I tried the urology secretary at the Hospital this morning only to find she does not work on Fridays!. What else is there?