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Part of having user moderators is that they sometimes do things you don't want them to do, I am afraid you'll just have to live with it Pasta.
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If you think we've been unfair at any point ask yourself the following questions about the situation: "Does it involve my mate?" & "Does it involve me?" - If you answer yes to either of these you may be suffering from a social illness known as "bias"
We DO NOT tell everyone why they are banned, suspended etc, it is not a constructive use of our time.