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She's in an apartment so she'll never meet any Tom's.. I'd love to get her nuterted, just to calm her down, but it's not possible right now.
I tried to take her to the vet a couple of weeks ago, it was an emergency appointment as she wasn't eating, I was so worried, they gave me a slot, but when it came time to box her up I couldn't get her into the carrier, I chased her for about 20 minutes trying to cage her. I had to cancel the appointment, but I got a telephone appointment with a Vet, they told me she was just having a 'off' day.
She doesn't Meoww much but she's climbing up the walls and curtains.