Hi alfie,
I have a regular blackbird, I call him raggy. The poor little thing is very tatty-looking, with feathers stuck up on his back and sides. He loves mealworms and I try to make sure he gets his share - the starlings usually come down and clear them up as soon as I put them out.
I also have a regular hedgehog - in fact, I think I have a whole family of hedgehogs. Often I have three at the dish all at the same time. They love mealworms too. They are canny little things - once the dish is empty, they push it around and make a lot of noise, then I go out and refill it for them.
With reference to your question about unkind posters on here - I'd say don't let them put you off this site, the majority of posters are good people. I didn't read the chicken thread because I knew it would upset me too much. I'll never, ever understand why people are cruel to animals. They are the lowest of the low.
xxx