Isa Blackbory - you just said, "I have not sought out the house of Anniekon/smudge, and have not encouraged others to do so." but you clearly did a lot of digging.
All smudge (note: not Anniekon) said was, "[...]We have a beautiful thatched roof pub/restaurant a few doors away from our house[...]"
From that, you deduced (and posted many times), "To 10,000 people around here this is very clearly a road called Kingsway, Dunstable, and the house is equally very clearly one of a very small number of scruffy semi-detached 1930's houses adjacent to a well known pub on the A505 called the Norman King. Purely out of interest a number of students from Dunstable College which is a couple of hundred yards away walked up there yesterday and claim to have identified the exact house." I know I'd be annoyed and worried if someone had just done that to me. This site isn't for doing detective work on people's posts and working out where they live. In fact, as mentioned before, it's not just against the terms and conditions of this site, it's also illegal.
Your story about your parents is sad, your story about your job is interesting, but both are rather irrelevent.