A choose to refuse?

[NoMercy]

An Aber has the option to refuse any more answers if they feel a question has been sufficiently answered. But what about someone who is getting abuse from certain users. Surely the best option would be to bar those abusive posters from coming onto their threads? If I posted a question and someone kept giving me abuse, surely it would be a useful facility if I could "choose to refuse" answers from that particular person, whilst still allowing the participation of those who wish to contribute to my thread? A bit like the facility you have on your BT landline, where you can ban the last caller!

That would cut out a lot of the abuse that goes on here and and might even free up some of your time, too, Ed!

[NoMercy]

Thanks swede - I could accept it if I had done something to deserve it. But all I've done is come on here and make some new friends. I always find that the abuse escalates when someone pays me a compliment. The person who is responsible for this, when she appears under her usual name, is all sweetness and light, sucking up to people. She obviously has psychiatric problems. What would you do in my position?

[swedeheart]

Open the window and scream, probably... I'm sorry to say I don't have any good advice for you and I only spy on ChatterBank when something in the RecentPosts box catches my attention, so I haven't seen anything of the situation you describe. Try to ignore it if you can. Easier said than done, I know, but it's effective for trolls so it may be for stalkers as well?

[Charisse]

Well I for one would name them. Otherwise there are a lot of "innocent" people that you are implicating.


P.s. If you have not seen those comments then please do not make a search on google.

I am sensing some hostility when you describe my interest as "attentive". I was making my observations and contribution without any real concern for you as you are merely a name on a screen. I was however trying to help you as it appears to matter to you regardless of whether you recognise that or not.

[NoMercy]

Why would you detect hostility on my part? You have simply contributed a lot to this thread. I noticed that you were a greenie at the same time as me, and since you and I have never had any convos on here before, I am amazed that you are able to recollect so many comments that have been posted about me, that even I do not know about! You must have a photographic memory, Charisse.

I won't bother doing a google search - as I am not bothered about what some unhinged individual has been saying about me. And finally, I have not yet implicated anyone.

I'm pleased to say, though, that I have just been given some excellent advice that I hadn't even considered before. Don't know why I didn't think of it earlier! LOL

[kjc]

I hold my hand up, Yes that was me. I was the one who called her a tart.
I havn't sent any e-mails though, don't have your email address, but if you have put it out on here you are asking for trouble, and I don't think it's allowed anyway, against Site Rules and all that.
As for all the others who have been name calling you, are you sure it is only one person? why do you think anyone has got aliases? that is not allowed on here eitther and unless you can prove it, the only course open to you is to email the ED.
You can give him my name too, to add to your list if you like, just to show you that I am not bothered.
The ED would only laugh and say 'another one saying;'

' please sir, so and so doesn't like me and pulled my pigtails.'

But personally I think you are the one with issues to even put a post on suggs complaining about it all.

[Charisse]

No Mercy please do not insinuate that I am more interested than I am. I was merely trying to help. Whilst this name was a "greenie" at the same time as you "I" am not new to this site and I bet that you are not either.

Take the advice that both I and kjc(yes that is one of the users that called you a tart.) and email the Ed

I however doubt that you have received abusive emails and are attention seeking.

Something that I shall not give you now.

Charisse..

[kjc]

If you have received abusive emails it's got nothing to do with this site or the ED either. He has said before, that anything off this site is out of his control. Including facebook.

[NoMercy]

Kjc - How did you know where to find this thread this morning? LOL

Jesus, Daniela - you are one very sick woman.

Get some help!

[NoMercy]

"Kjc" love the way you signed out as kjc, then signed back as Charisse. How would "kjc" have even know that this thread was here this morning?

I have not had abusive emails, I have had abuse on here after giving my email to Daniela31. Daniela31 got nasty with me when I flirted with leg, tried to tell me what to do and now all these aliases are giving me abuse. You have the nerve to suggest that I am attention seeking when you put up posts claiming to have been stalked by Sgt.Rock and claiming to have had a relationship with some high profile tv mogul. You need psychiatric treatment, Daniela! Now sod off and leave me alone, you sicko!

[kjc]

I always look through the suggs posts in the mornings, that's how I saw this thread.
As far as i can see too Daniela is not on this thread, so don't know why you are having a go at her here.
And as for charisse, she is herself, got nothing to do with me. I have been on this site for a few years now but only as myself. I am usually in the quiz section, but stray onto CB sometimes to laugh at the petty squabbles that go on there. Seems that you have been drawn into the squabbles.

Look, why don't you email the ED, and put a stop to all this nonsense you are posting.

BTW I have only ever been kjc here.....................my name is Kate.

[kjc]

Don't be too long posting that apology, I might have to email the ED myself and tell him of your false accusations otherwise.

[Charisse]

No Mercy you are now being silly.

Kjc and I are not one person. If you are being abused on here either ignore it or report it. It is that simple.

[NoMercy]

From now on Daniela - I will refer to you by your proper name (I was brought up that way).

Can you tell me why you took such exception to me in the first place? Do you fancy leg or something?
In the last email you sent me, you gave me "some good friendly advice" and warned if I didn't take it, I would get loads of abuse. No sooner had you said that, loads of abuse came my way from names I had not even come across. Wow, you could give Nostradamus a run for his money! How remarkably accurate your prediction was.

You are not doing yourself any favours here, Daniela. You've cried wolf and a male cber has made a counter allegation against you. Now you are stalking me. I know which one I believe. At least Sgt.Rock has the courage to just be himself on this site, regardless of what others think of him.

You are very plausible, I'll give you that. But you are making fools of people by variously befriending them under several different aliases. Just give this up now Daniela, while you've still got a shred of respect left.

[kjc]

And I will ask you once more.........................'WHERE IS DANIELA ON THIS THREAD?'

I am reporting both this thread and you for false accusations against me.

[NoMercy]

Well, it's one thing to run two aliases at one, surely 3 would be a bit difficult.

This is the last reply you or any other of your psycotic personalities are EVER going to get from me.

Somehow, with your track record, I don't think the Ed would take you seriously. Remember your post about "your side of the story"?

Now go and crawl back under your stone, you nasty evil monster...........!!!

[kjc]

*reported*

I am now going to work, and shall look in later.

Have a nice day.

xx

[Charisse]

Well at least she has named her abuser. Now No Mercy take it up with "her" or the Ed if she is abusing you on here or your email provider who will tell you if you can indeed block her emails. Good luck.

[NoMercy]

This reply is to anyone who is listening in on this thread. One common denominator between all the aliases that have given me abuse is the two little kisses at the end of the message. A rather distinctive style. I have noticed it a lot over the weeks.

[NoMercy]

God almighty - the ladies doth protest too much methinks!!

[Charisse]

Name her aliases as well then. I really must dash, cats are climbing the walls! I do hope that you get it all sorted No Mercy as it is obviously upsetting you. Try not to let it.