Thanks for emails, yes lottie the name one is right.
I don't think sister even knows what is wrong with him. In July he was as fit as a fiddle albeit with diabetes, then they found his arteries were clogged and were going to operate then some stupid foot person hacked at a sore toe and set off an huge infection which has spread (my sister knew nothing of this visit until later, she is furious as he should have gone to the NHS one). Once they decided they couldn't operate until the foot was clear he has gone into a decline, convinced that any movement will kill him. Trouble is my sister has allowed his ex-secretary to become his minder (as a favour so she gets paid) so sister didn't go to all the hospital visits, which i was cross about and told her to buck up and take over, which she did, but even now I think the other carer goes sometimes and I suppose she tells sister everything. Anyway he doesn't go anywhere now, they all come to him. On the 24th he has to go to see heart specialist. He seems Ok sometimes and then sometimes gaga.