Bazile...LOL...I will be honest.......we NEVER have anybody staying with us, not even the kids or especially the grandchildren, all we ask in our retirement is a bit of peace and quietness.
Friends and family have and do come over, but they stay in hotels or villas and we see them perhaps once or twice a week for a meal. We can't stand being in other people's pockets and we can't stand them being in our's.
It works for us.........;-)