comfort please

[Mamyalynne]

my darling hubby lies here in his bed, dying, i cant do more, but am at aloss anyone there?

[pinktwink]

that sounds really tough for you. There are always people around.I hope you have good family and friends to support you through this tough time. god bless you

[Rtaxron]

I am here, but its hard to believe you are on your PC if your hubby is dying.
Shouldn't you be holding his hand?

[pastafreak]

My heart goes out to you hun...just be there for him. He will need you near him and i am sure it will bring him comfort.

Talk to us whenever you need to.....x

[pastafreak]

I think the need to reach out to others is still there..even if only for a minute...

[pinktwink]

thats a bit rough rtaxron perhaps this lady is nursing a husband with a long term illness. She too neeeds support and time away from the totality of what she is facing.Perhaps he has finally drifted to sleep and she is left awake lonely and in pain. Show some compassion not judgement we all deal with grief in our own way

[Mamyalynne]

no offence taken his bed is that close i can hold his hand and yes have lots of support but still needed toreach out for more
thankyou

[pinktwink]

what kind of support are you looking for is there any way we can help

[Mamyalynne]

am going to try to get some sleep, thankyou for lisstening
this isharder than i imagined and you have been a help

[terambulan]

You poor girl. It's your last chance to say all the meaningful words. Remind him of your happy times and thank him for the life he has shared with you.

Be strong for him, hold his hand, soothe and comfort him. Tell him how much you love him and how lost u will be if he leaves u.

Tell him you will never leave him. x

[Mamyalynne]

pinktwik dont know to be honest just at a loss and a bit emotional have all the nurses etc on call but mydaughters have small children so they are in their beds just felt alone fel guilty now
we`ve been togather 34 years is an awful wrench

[pinktwink]

also take time for yourself this is tough on you too dont be afraid to reach out for help. look after yourself

[Mamyalynne]

thankyou all again
mamya

[pinktwink]

please dont feel guilty you have nothing to be guilty about use this time to tell your husband what you feel and think be grateful for the time you have left as you have time to make sure he knows how much you love him and tell him all the things you need to before he goes. gob bless you both xx

[Mamyalynne]

have done all that he just wants to go, bless him, but his body is ob viously stronger than he thinks we have had very happy times but nothing prepares you for this
your words are ahelp in the wee small hours

[pinktwink]

goodnight and god bless tell him to go that you will be ok and that whenever he is ready to go to the to the life awaiting him. Sometimes terminally ill people need permission to go. My thoughts are with yee both tonight and I will say a prayer for yeee.

[Mamyalynne]

thanks pink hes planning a party with mum and adad and have given him permission to travel
night night mamya

[Mamyalynne]

To all who answered me thanks again, Bill passed between 5 and 7 this morning so is at peace, with my love and blessing.
Mamya xxx

[puzzled54]

Am sad for your loss. You knew it was time to let him go, he will be at peace now. My thoughts are with you. Take care.

[terambulan]

RIP Bill. My condolences to you.

Release your grief now he has gone. You made his last hours loving & comfortable.

Know that we have gone thru the same blur and understand how you are feeling.

[4getmenot]

oh you poor soul. bless you, I know it must be very sad gfor you at the moment but be thankful you got to be with him in his last hours, some people are taken so suddenly and we dont always get to say goodbye. xx