It is asking a lot of strangers to relate to and offer a coping strategy for somebody with clinical depression for the last 17 years with issues relating to domestic violence, incest and drug abuse. These are only the issues we know about, there are far better places to go for advice, support groups etc, try S.A.N.E or The Campaign Against Living Miserably.
Sadly, I think this is a wind up, if not, the information is above, if so, then the information you need is above.