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My gran in a bad place?
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Don't really know what to do. A friend of a friend swears blind she saw my gran coming out of the local gum clinic. I thought she was joking but she described her to a tea and told me what she was wearing and what her car was like parked outside.
My gran is a single and i don't think she is with anyone. Well, she hasn't said so. I am so shocked if she was in there and disgusted to be honest.
I really don't think it was a lie. So what should i do?
a) tell my gran my friend saw her in there?
b) don't say anything cause it's none of my business?
c) tell my mother?
d) ring the gum clinic pretending to be my gran and ask if my results are back?
My friend's friend has no reason to lie, thanks.
My gran is a single and i don't think she is with anyone. Well, she hasn't said so. I am so shocked if she was in there and disgusted to be honest.
I really don't think it was a lie. So what should i do?
a) tell my gran my friend saw her in there?
b) don't say anything cause it's none of my business?
c) tell my mother?
d) ring the gum clinic pretending to be my gran and ask if my results are back?
My friend's friend has no reason to lie, thanks.
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"She might even work part time as a cleaner.
And as for posting this at 22.29, well, really, that says it all"
Albaqwerty - I am quite sure at 72 years old that she is happily retired and as if she wouldn't tell us she had a job.
I have come on this website for advice. I notice that many of us younger posters get talked to like dirt. Why does it matter what time I posted this????? I don't understand what you are getting at? Please explain yourself.
I can totally understand people telling me to butt out but like i said, she's my gran and I want to know all is ok. That's all folks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And as for posting this at 22.29, well, really, that says it all"
Albaqwerty - I am quite sure at 72 years old that she is happily retired and as if she wouldn't tell us she had a job.
I have come on this website for advice. I notice that many of us younger posters get talked to like dirt. Why does it matter what time I posted this????? I don't understand what you are getting at? Please explain yourself.
I can totally understand people telling me to butt out but like i said, she's my gran and I want to know all is ok. That's all folks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to attend because I had persistent cystitis and I am 84 (no sexual partner - finally got beyond it when my husband died) I didn't even know they catered for other things and quite frankly I don't care. All I can say is that they were excellent and I have now been free of cystitis (cross fingers and knock on wood) for over a year, due to their care and advice.
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LOL, you got there first!
dolly - I promise you, it's nothing to do with age, if you had been your gran and she'd seen you coming out of the clinic, I would still have said the same thing. You did ask, we've given your our advice (and some on here are similar age to your gran or older, we'd know how we'd feel if we were being gossiped about, about something like this. I know you are concerned for your gran, but I am sure that if she were ill, she would tell you.
dolly - I promise you, it's nothing to do with age, if you had been your gran and she'd seen you coming out of the clinic, I would still have said the same thing. You did ask, we've given your our advice (and some on here are similar age to your gran or older, we'd know how we'd feel if we were being gossiped about, about something like this. I know you are concerned for your gran, but I am sure that if she were ill, she would tell you.
I'd feel dreadfully uncomfortable if my daughter or granddaughter came to me,saying "so-and-so saw you coming out of..blah,blah" I'd feel as if my private business was being talked about. And-if the reverse was true-I would not confront said daughter/grand daughter about what's private to them.The information needs to be offered-if it isn't,then it's no-ones business.
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