Would a hospital keep you overnight if????

[charchar23]

Would a hospital keep you in all night if you apparently "passed out" and had a chest infection which was on your 'lungs'?

[NoMercy]

Ask him to show you his discharge form.

[charchar23]

just over a year ummmm

[charchar23]

Like I said NoMercy it was a couple of weeks ago so he wouldnt have it now

[NoMercy]

Ask him what ward he was on. Ring the ward and say your boyfriend lost his watch and that you are both variously ringing around all the places he's been to see if he lost it there. Then take it from there..

[ummmm]

I don't want to sound like I'm asking too many questions....

Did you know him for long before you got with him?

[China Doll]

Good grief... if you don't trust him then what's the point in carrying on the relationship. No need to try and work out if he was in hospital or not, a relationship without trust isn't worth carrying on with.

[charchar23]

ummmm knew him about a year before we actually got together

[ummmm]

Has he given you reason to doubt him before?

You know, unless something has happened in your past to make you a little suspicious, your gut feeling is usually right!!

Where do you think he was that night?

[charchar23]

No not been suspicious before. I think he was with his so called 'mate'

[ummmm]

Do you actually think he got up to something? Or just wanted a lads night and lied to you to avoid any arguments?

How old are you?

[charchar23]

I honestly don't know ummm. I'm 26 he's 28 he doesnt do 'lads nights'

[charchar23]

And if that was the case why let me worry when calling him cos he must of switched his phone off

[ummmm]

You never know. He might be telling the truth.

He doesn't do lads nights and he's never made you suspicious before.

If all else is good in the relationship maybe just forget about it this time. If something like this happens again you can decide what to do then....

[charchar23]

True. But just didnt think a hospital would keep you in all night for a 'cough' I was taken to hospital once with chest pains and I couldnt breath I was in and out in a flash.

[ummmm]

You'd be surprised. It would depend on how busy they are, who's on duty...etc

It could be the 'passing out' they made them keep him in.

[charchar23]

You could be right ummm, maybe just letting my mind run away with me a bit. My ex cheated on me non stop so I'm a bit wary of men after him. I should just learn not all men are the same

[ummmm]

That's what I hinted at before. Your past maybe affecting your judgement...

Men are not all the same....I can honestly say that most of the men (and women) I know are honest and loyal.

[charchar23]

yep I know. Well not going to say anything about it. But if it happens again I'll turn CSI on his ass lol

[ummmm]

lol...like your style :-)

[Maydup]

Sympathise with you Charchar, but feel that if a person was admitted to hospital, they'd ring their gf at the time. Not only would they want to let you know, but they'd probably need a bit of support and someone to bring them a toothbrush.

It doesn't ring true to me and I'd be thinking about waving goodbye to this one if you can't share in such events.