Hi Chinadog Of course it is, I think it would be more strange if u werent crying, in the circumstances. I am sure he is also going through all sorts of emotions, as someone else said it will take time and in the meantime be gentle on yourself and try and pamper yourself a bit, do the things u didnt normally do. I really empathise with you, as I have also been married 29 years and I know it must feel like a real wrench for him now not to be there, but its better that you both have this space between u for a while and then see what happens, it will certainly give him thinking time. Keep strong, and a big hug xx