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fliptheswitch | 08:13 Tue 18th Oct 2011 | Body & Soul
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I am absolutely devastated. My younger sister has been told she may have cancer. Well, the consultant actually told her it is "highly likely" and to "expect the worst".
She had been having stomach and lower back ache for a while now, and has been in and out of the doctors on a few occasions. She was first told it was a water infection, so was given antibiotics for that.
It didn't help, so she went back and was referred to a gynecologist. They examined her and said her cervix looked "abnormal". They also said she had a polyp(?) and white patches on the scan. She was then referred to the hospital.
She went to the hospital yesterday and was again examined by a consultant. He told her he "didn't like the look of it".
When she got dressed and came out into the room, there was a nurse sat there, which she thought was a bit strange. The consultant then told her "I'm afraid it's not good news", and introduced the nurse to be a cancer nurse! :(
He told her that her cervix "protrudes", which is apparently an early sign of the dreaded C. He then told her it was "highly likely" that she had it, but they would know for sure on Wednesday morning when the results came back. She did say what they did (began with the letter c, but I can't remember or pronounce it) and the consultant told her they would rush it through for Wednesday.
I am absolutely gutted. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and what the future may hold for her. My Dad keeps saying "she'll be fine, she'll be fine", but I just can't seem to stay so positive. I spoke to my her yesterday, and she was very matter of fact about the whole thing. She said in her heart she knew something was wrong, and has prepared herself for the worst.
I know there's a chance she may not have it, and I am praying that that's the case. But... something tells me it's not going to be good news. For a consultant to tell her it's "highly likely" she has it and that he has "concerns for her", makes me think he knows there is something there.
Also, the cancer nurse that was in the room with her, started going through all the ins and outs with my sisters, discussing surgery and whatnot. She is in pieces (obviously) and was saying to me how she won't be able to continue with university, or her job. I told her not to get ahead of herself, and to wait until Wednesday when we'll know for sure, but she's just resigned to the fact that this is happening to her. I didn't know what to say, I just felt so sad for her.
I don't know what my question is, I just felt the need to get this out. I guess I'm looking for anyone that's been in a similar situation, or any advice on the subject...
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Thanks John. x
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Just a quick update, as I said I would...
Well, my sister went for her mri on Tuesday, and had a meeting with her consultant on Wednesday. I spoke to her yesterday afternoon, and it was good news. Well, great really! The cancer is in the first stage, and the consultant is "very confident" that they've caught it in time. She is having an operation to remove the tumor and part of the cervix, and they will "stitch up her womb" afterwards, so it will not affect her fertility... Which I know was a huge thing for her. Obviously this was the best news ever for my family, and we just want her to get better as soon as possible. I can't even begin to describe how worried I've been this past week or so, and so this fantastic news was very, very welcome. She'll need six weeks to recover after her op, but the fact that its been caught early and that they CAN get rid of it, is just fantastic. I'm not sure what (if anything?) Follows after the operation, but the main thing is, she's going to be ok. I'm keeping this short and sweet and can't reply, as I'm using my phone to write this (which I'm not so great at) as I'm away from home at the mo. Just thought I'd post an update, for the people who asked. Thank you for all your support, it really was (is) much appreciated. You kept me sane, when I was falling apart... :-)
Great news :-)
That's great news, really pleased for you all x
Hi flip, what brilliant news - it is so great that they have caught it so early. Good luck to your sister. x
i was looking for you over the last few days flip......................... what fabulous news, ♥
Very pleased to hear it, Flip.
What lovely news Flip. I am so pleased for her and for all the family.

Lottie xx
(((Hugs ))) for you flip and for your sister. I hope all goes well for her and look forward to hearing about her speedy recovery.

Take care of yourself too, you'll be in shock a little bit so don't feel guilty if you need to rest up over the weekend and take life easy for a few days.
thats good news flip x
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Thank you to all. It really has been a horrific week or so, and I'm just so, so thankful that things will be ok for her. She's a tough cookie.
What an absolute joy to read this - am so very glad for all family and wish her well and a speedy recover too. ♥
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Thanks Mamya :-) x
We're all looking after her.
Just read this thread, I am so pleased that things are looking up for you and your family. You sound like a strong family that will support each other. Best wishes to you all.
Such Great News flip. Best wishes to your sister and the rest of your family. I'm really pleased for you.
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Thanks Tenrec, that's really nice. It's awful to say, but I've spoken to my sister so much more this past week or so, than I usually do. It's made me realise what's important in life. We are a close family, and we'll get through this with her. I can't even begin to explain how relieved I am. I was wishing it was me, and not her. I have never felt so much heartache for one of my siblings, I really haven't.

Thank you :-)
As an Ex nurse......................over to you Sqad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks Chrissa :-) xx

Chaffinch, what do you mean? Please don't start with the "what may follow after", as we all well aware of this. What matters is, she's going to be ok. I have every faith in her and her beating this.
Great to hear the good prognosis, my thoughts are with you and your sister.
I go to the Christie on 7 Nov for HDR Brachytherapy for my prostate. I have every confidence in the Christie.
Thanks to all who support cancer research.
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Thank you kawikiri. I wish you all the best for your journey... :-)) xx

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