Can I look?

[Hammer]

OK ladies, let's get this straight once and for all. If you are wearing  a low-cut top, are we allowed to look?
I reckon that if it's on display then it's fair game. Does everyone agree?
BTW, by looking, I mean stealing a cheeky appreciative glance, not leering, dribbling and shouting 'waheey, you don't get many of those to the pound, love'

[SASHAGREEN]

i guess all is fair! look if you please. wanna look at mine?

[hectic]

I'm a girl and would fully expect a man to look down there if I had them on full show, isn't that the reason for wearing such tops?!

[OBonio]

I think it's only ok to look if a) the girl doesn't notice or b) the girl notices but she fancies you. That's from a girl's point of view. From a bloke's... look all you want.

[Englishbird]

by all means look, but please don't talk to them :o)

[CiderMonkey]

If i am wearing a top that shows them off I don't mind at all if blokes have a sneaky peek. It's kinda the reason I wear them. As OBonio said, it's even better if it's a tasty guy looking! I've spoken with my man about this and he says that it's very hard for guys NOT to look, even if they know they shouldn't, even if they keep getting caught!

[amarillis]

If they're on show, then obviously guys are going to look at them. I really don't mind it, otherwise I wouldn't wear low-cut tops.

[mongos bird]

I don't mind at all, it's quite flattering (they're the only part of my anatomy I don't mind putting on show!) However, I totally second the point raised by Englishbird. Someone spent the evening having a conversation with me boobs, we spent approx 2 hours chatting but he couldn't tell me what colour my eyes were!! 

[Alixw]

Yeah I don't see a problem with it, as long as my boyfriend doesn't catch you looking!!! lol!! What other reason are tops cut low for if not to show them off?! I actually think I'd be a bit upset/worried if no one looked!

[GucciGal]

I'm wiv Englishbird!! lol!

[MargeB]

I went to a continental sauna few months back and the sight of men oggling at topless women is a bit....sad! Men do it without noticing though. Got caught out by gf noticing me doing it once to another once too...ouch! Where else could I look?

[Snappy]

Yes you can look if they're on show but as you say, no leering or anything!

[catra1]

i don't mind as long as the guy isn't continuously looking or talking to my boobs as opposed to my face"
Catra:)

[dmsjps]

It's true that guys will look if you have them on show, which is why I don't wear low-cut tops in public: because they make me really angry when they're letching and I just want to slap them!

[Artemis]

I don't see a problem with it.

[Cappuccino]

I sometimes gaze heavenwards when I notice exactly how much my girlfriend has on view sometimes, but then I'm extremely happy to be the benefticiary.

Used to look as much as anyone else, but being somewhat loved up these days somebody would have to be right in front of me for me to notice...

[cat woman]

Good job my husband is'nt a boob man and goes for nice pert bums, because I must have been last in the line when they where dished out, my 2 sisters & mum have got my share. I do wear low tops but I've got nothing to show off, ( well I can dream cant I )

[Robinia]

Same here cat woman!  But at least at 51 they're still in the same place that they've always been - no one has to lift up my skirt to find them!! :-)

[Jules001]

I know men like to look and I have got a lot to look at ! However I hate having this much 'up top' and therefore get embarassed when men look 'leering, dribbling and shouting 'waheey, you don't get many of those to the pound, love'. If it is a sneaky peek, then I suppose I don't mind, - you men are only human after all.

[flaming]

A discreet look, an appreciative eye-brow raise - I'm sure every woman likes that sort of attention.  It is the 'Page 3' type of comment that must be awful for those ldoing the showing, as that draws attention to the fact that boobs are on show.  Men who have been around women for a while know that this is not a good idea. They know that good flirtation is almost secretive.

Appreciation can be shown in less obvious ways!

[Hammer]

Wow, thanks for all the responses!!

So, as long as they are out in the public domain I can discreetly look and appreciate, as long as I don't try to strike up a coversation with them. Got it.