Crosswords1 min ago
Sex Addict
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I wasnt going to ask this as its such a personal subject but here goes.
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...
I have recently started dating a guy who is a few years younger than me. He is absolutely amazing. He treats me so well and is unbelievably gorgeous.
The trouble is, he seems to just want sex. All the time.
We only see each other on weekends (I have kids and don't want to confuse them) and he says that this isnt enough.
He meets me on my lunch break, and asks for sex. He picks me up from work, and asks for sex. He asks me to stay over at his, and asks for sex.
I don't deny him, but for me it's just not on my list of priorities. I always think of what I can be doing... like my work from home or the kids' ironing.
I am 30 and he is 23. I wonder if this is the problem?
He says he and his ex had sex 3-4 times a day! Seriously, I'd be happy with once a week. I am honestly not bothered about sex, but don't want to sound like a bore...
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Lots of good advice on here already but thought I'd add my opinion. He is very lucky he has a nice face. Because of this fortunate genetic fact, he has been able to sail along, having sex with who he pleases. And because we are genetically programmed to mate with a good, fit, even-
12:48 Fri 25th Jan 2013
So just addressing the practicalities for a mo ...
He wants, err ... "it" ...
Quick beejay ... He won't say no to that ... then you can get on with your ironing ... you don't even have to get undressed if you avoid, err ... "spillage"?
And you don't have to do the whole sex thing.
... okay, I'm going to stop there.
He wants, err ... "it" ...
Quick beejay ... He won't say no to that ... then you can get on with your ironing ... you don't even have to get undressed if you avoid, err ... "spillage"?
And you don't have to do the whole sex thing.
... okay, I'm going to stop there.
He's not satisfied with that. He wants full sex...
He He He wants He He He's not satisfied! For Funks Sake
I dont think you fully understood my comment earlier. If i was a young lady free and single and like yourself, and had kids I adored, and had fun with this chap, THEN started to doubt what I had gotten into...I would'nt hesitate for one minute to say ENOUGH now...fun while it lasted, but enough!..and there wouldnt be anything I wouldnt do for my kids either.......its up to you, MM .....keep being used like a convenient object...cos if he wasnt getting it from you, he most certainly will get it from someone else.
I think this has probably run its course, going by what you have said, and you are looking for a way out and if I were you, i'd end it pretty soon, before it gets more complicated and something happens that you will ultimately regret.
Sorry to be blunt again part 2....lots of luck, MM whatever you decide on. x
He He He wants He He He's not satisfied! For Funks Sake
I dont think you fully understood my comment earlier. If i was a young lady free and single and like yourself, and had kids I adored, and had fun with this chap, THEN started to doubt what I had gotten into...I would'nt hesitate for one minute to say ENOUGH now...fun while it lasted, but enough!..and there wouldnt be anything I wouldnt do for my kids either.......its up to you, MM .....keep being used like a convenient object...cos if he wasnt getting it from you, he most certainly will get it from someone else.
I think this has probably run its course, going by what you have said, and you are looking for a way out and if I were you, i'd end it pretty soon, before it gets more complicated and something happens that you will ultimately regret.
Sorry to be blunt again part 2....lots of luck, MM whatever you decide on. x
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