how do u move on

[destiny]

how can u move on wen people u want to get away from are always there. ive had a hard time lettin go of the past and every time i want 2 move on i cant coz my past stops me. ive tried alot of things to move on forgive mysellf and others but i just cant seem to. im gettin realy depresed and dont kno how 2 handle it. any advice on how to move on and enjoy life. thank u

[Litchick]

Destiny, I think we all have trouble escaping our past....having said that, why not see a counselor or therapist???  It's extremely benefical and even if you can't "escape" your past, at least you can have a happy future despite it.  Good luck...

[GucciGal]

hi destiny, this may sound a bit daft but things like Yoga help you focus and give you the strength to move on (as you are the only one that has this power)

Empowering yourself is the BIGGEST thing that will put distance between you and the things that make you unhappy.

Here's a little something for to start your journey ....

Look Inwards
We all have three eyes. Two for looking out and one for looking in. Why would we want to look in when everything is happening 'out there'? Because the treasure we seek is inside, not outside. What is treasure? Beauty, truth, peace, happiness. You already have what you seek. You already are stunningly beautiful. You are already peaceful and loving. How come you don't know this? Simple, you never look inwards, beyond superficial memories or recent experiences, so you never see your own riches. Take a moment to stop, look in and see. Don't rush. Don't search. Just look. And be aware.

Good luck xx

[smee.tracey]

It's a long journey you've got to undertake. I know. I did it my leaving the area I was living in. You don't have to go far but if you can find a job and a cheap place to live (there are some out there) it will make a huge difference. 10 years ago I was a mess but one day something inside me just said go. I don't know why it happened but it did. If you want something bad enough and are prepared to work hard at it you can achieve literally anything. Very good luck and if you fall at the first hurdle get up and have another go. One day you'll complete the race.