Telling Your Wife/girlfriend They Are Fat

[dave50]

Have any of you chaps out there ever plucked up the courage to tell your wife/girlfriend that they have put on a bit of weight lately or need to loose a few pounds or even tell them they are fat? If so what was the reaction and did you live to tell the tale? If you are wondering, no I am not about say any such thing to my wife but I know someone who did drop a hint that his wife was getting podgy, didn't go down too well.

[Sqad]

mamya.........what a surprise to me......I always imagined you to be big...fat....particularly after that thread on bras.

So, in actual fact a slim lady with big knockers.........I am impressed.

[boxtops]

My OH is kind enough to comment when I am losing weight, that's Brownie points for him :-)

[Sqad]

boxy....yeah.....well losing weight wasn't the question.

[boxtops]

Yeah I know, but if he told me I was putting it back on, he'd get a poke in the eye :-)

[Sqad]

;-) ^^

[Mamyalynne]

Not sure how I gave that impression on the 'bra' thread - I certainly didn't intend to.

Yes.slim but large upstairs - just my build and I know I am lucky as many friends have struggled with their weight for years.

[janbee]

Dave, it would be your last memory.

[Sqad]

mamy...." why thank you sqad" would have been a more appropriate response.

[Retrochic]

When I fist met my OH he commented that I could do with a bit of meat on my bones lol! Think I was about 8 stone 3. I am no longer 8 stone 3 (4 children and lots of good food) but whenever I ask OH if I'm getting fat he just says no you have a gorgeous figure, even though I'm now a good 2 stone heavier. Thing is I know he's probably lying but if he said I was fat I'd probably go off on one and tell him to go find a skinny B if that's what he preferred. I was once complaining my size 10 jeans were getting tight,his reply, well buy a size 12 then lol!

[Mamyalynne]

" Why thank you squad"

[Mamyalynne]

arghhhhhhhh

"Why thank you Sqad"

[Sqad]

It's a pleasure mamy.........;-)

[islasmum]

My OH is more likely to tell me that I look nice in a dress or trousers that he knows that I cannot get into at present, than actually tell me that I've gained weight - which I know I have! I can always get my own back by commenting on his beer belly!

[woofgang]

Clanad....two words.....Snake Oil!

[Scarlett]

It was not very nice when I went from being a fit 27 year old to not being able to stand up or walk for ever, and that made me gain a lot of weight. Still, I'm interested to read that I might one day be able to impress men one day if I get big knockers and halve my weight. Instead though, I choose to impress myself by achieving amazing things creatively and helping others. :)

[Mamyalynne]

That was a little jokey reply to Sqad from me - my aim is to impress no one and I have always been who I am regardless of my abilities and disabilities.

I realise it reads badly.

[Butterbun]

Good on you scarlett. Being happy with yourself is quite an achievement I think never mind what others think. I put some weight on after having children and haven't been able to shift it, but being a little bit more than the 'average' weight doesn't really bother me either. I used to be quite skinny.

[Butterbun]

I think I should scroll down before pressing 'submit', but mamya I don't think any offence was meant.

[Mamyalynne]

Was just a little sparring between Sqad and me,but it looks like Scarlett may have taken it to mean I was thankful that sqad was impressed.



I'm not.

[Butterbun]

I'm sure we all got the humour of it though. We know sqad's type of humour. Just think though, some girls pay thousands for a D cup.