can you believe it

[jennyjoan]

Just after getting word - that brother who is terminally ill - has been looked after by girlfriend for two months - had to go back to his own home - has broken his *** arm.

[anneasquith]

is he back in hospital conn ?

[Mamyalynne]

Oh what a damn shame on top of everything else.

[jennyjoan]

No - refuses all kinds of care blah - son and his partner have been there but partner is getting out with baby.

Brother's Girlfriend is allegedly taking him back to her flat (2 bedroom) - her son is there 26. He has 4 sons - but they can't handle him. He is dreadful re independence and care.

Just don't know what to say anymore. Sis and I have gone down to house and we can't get in. He is there but too ill to answer door and the "carers" are not there. Unspoken words.

[anneasquith]

so , he is going back to his girlfriends home ? at least she can keep an eye on him .

[jennyjoan]

I am saying nothing more. Goodnight

[jennyjoan]

Just reading my post there - it sounds very sharp

Just meant I am sad - and goodnight (softly)

[anneasquith]

don't worry conn. we know you are concerned about your brother,