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anneasquith, I've no idea what the drugs are but her husband tells me some of them are 'Class A'. I don't understand drugs - but I assume that's not good. She's never been for tests on her liver. She was asked to go for an MRI scan on her brain, but she won't go. She only leaves the house to attend appointments with her doctor to get repeat prescriptions - or to walk a couple of minutes to the local off licence for her booze, which her husband refuses to buy when he gets the household shopping. She does absolutely nothing at home. No housework, no cooking, no laundry, nothing at all. She just lies on the sofa all day watching television, playing about with Facebook, and sleeping. After much persuasion she recently agreed to allow a psychologist to visit her at home, but she says he's stupid so I don't know how long those visits will last. We've tried for a long time to help her and encourage her - but I think we're all rapidly reaching the conclusion that she doesn't want to be helped and is therefore beyond help. Awful! Such a waste of life!