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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.What works for you sounds pretty callous. But I am breaking my heart right now. I can't seem to get it right with Sista with the loss of her son after 12 years. I have had to represent her like with solicitors the law etc cos she wouldn't go there (he isn't dead) Now with innuendoes she accuses me of stealing from her, I keep envelopes closed (this was bus pass) - she doesn't mean it but I despair. I am so low low low . The void between her and I is massive. I cant seem to put it into words. I know for a fact she really loves to come to me of a Sunday but as soon as she gets out of the taxi - I am in for it. Dust, dinner, she doesn't like turnip, dog is depressed. Loads more but to top it tonight when driving her home we had definitely not my fault - I waited and waited for all clear but driver was driving about 70 mph in a 30mph (she doesn't understand and always a horrendous passenger for years and years) - we had a near miss.
When we arrived at her home she said - you are killing yourself some day and if I was you I'd give up driving.
But those words went far beyond that. Does anybody understand that. Sorry.
When we arrived at her home she said - you are killing yourself some day and if I was you I'd give up driving.
But those words went far beyond that. Does anybody understand that. Sorry.
JJ, lots of seemingly smaller things roll up and gather into a huge ball of stress and worry and they grind you down at times - it's impossible for you to change your sister's entrenched behaviour.
She won't alter now, suggest a cab home in future and when she makes accusations just reply quietly 'Wrong' and carry on.
If you think you may benefit from some counselling ask at the GP Surgery.
Difficult times for you xxx
She won't alter now, suggest a cab home in future and when she makes accusations just reply quietly 'Wrong' and carry on.
If you think you may benefit from some counselling ask at the GP Surgery.
Difficult times for you xxx
Mmmmmm I think I understand where your coming from, jj.
- I waited and waited for all clear but driver was driving about 70 mph in a 30mph (she doesn't understand and always a horrendous passenger for years and years) - we had a near miss.
jj, there is always some idiot doing something stupid on the road. Not your fault that you had a near miss. Take no notice of sista saying you ought to pack up driving.
- I waited and waited for all clear but driver was driving about 70 mph in a 30mph (she doesn't understand and always a horrendous passenger for years and years) - we had a near miss.
jj, there is always some idiot doing something stupid on the road. Not your fault that you had a near miss. Take no notice of sista saying you ought to pack up driving.
Oh I know what you are suggesting and you are perfectly correct but it doesn't alter the true picture. She will never ever get over him as he (son) was her one and only bird and if ever a mother existed it was her.
The thing is anybody who meets me thinks I am a happy jovial person it is unbelievable. But anyway will go on and on like everyone else. Sorry for being morbid.
The thing is anybody who meets me thinks I am a happy jovial person it is unbelievable. But anyway will go on and on like everyone else. Sorry for being morbid.
