Complicated Sex Life

[pumpjack]

ex wife was a model, wife after her was stunning, ive never had a problem with finding / dating woman, though for some years now i find that i go off sex with same person very quickly.
hate to say it but i used to cheat on my wifes with fat ugly woman for one night stands ,
so, what the hell is wrong with me, i dont want to be like this anymore.....there is a new woman in my life and she is absolutely gorgeous but i know this is going to end the same way and im going to get bored.....
spoke to my doctor about this years ago, he told me i have a problem getting emotionally attatched , whatever he meant , i didnt push it or go into great detail but obviously there is some underlying phycological reasoning behind this.

[jno]

quite likely. Try to run through your own thought processes - when you like someone, when you start to dislike them, and why.

[anneasquith]

Do you have question?

[tonyav]

I'm supervised that you treat your women / wifes like that seeing as your knocking on a bit !
https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Society-and-Culture/Question1624968.html

[pumpjack]

jno " quite likely. Try to run through your own thought processes - when you like someone, when you start to dislike them, and why. "

i cant understand myself, why ? i hate being ike this....
sometimes i think sex is dirty and it discusts me , so looking to see if anyone else has ever had this problem...i do suspect i did suffer some abuse as a child and maybe i have some underlying issue .......

i do not know !

[1ozzy]

//but i used to cheat on my wifes with fat ugly woman //

Shallow Hal, beauty is more than skin deep.

But, getting your rocks off, well, have a good look at yourself

[rowanwitch]

More interested in the type of woman you turn to...
Couple of ideas spring to mind. One if you are open to genuine suggestions you should look very closely at the person your mother was. How did she look how did she act.
Two Do you see attractive women as simply trophies where the pursuit and capture is the thing you enjoy, and the showing off of them to prove what a strong alpha male you are. If so you might have inferiority issues which cause you to want to prove yourself. The ugly fat birds are your subconscious telling you this is where deep inside you see your level .
I can say fat ugly birds because many people would describe me thus.

[david small]

Celibacy for six months would strengthen your intent.

[david small]

Rowanwitch. You are a beautiful soul. Please don’t let what you persevere as others view of you as fact.
You are kind and intelligent, perceptive and compassionate.
As I said, a beautiful soul.

[LadyCG]

I've met Rowan and she is a beautiful person.

[emmie]

you sound an absolute charmer, how on earth do you get all these women, fat ugly ones at that to sleep with you, are they grateful for the attention, surely they must cotton on to the fact that you aren't a particularly caring sort.

[rowanwitch]

Sometimes it's just a case of why not, a very close friend said some of his best sex was with larger women. Not with me I might add. Thanks for the nice words I am working hard to change the exterior.

I don't think this is an issue of uncaring but I do think it is going to pan out to be an inferiority punishment scenario but need a bit more info to go on.

[MallyJ]

Even fat ugly old birds like me have standards and I have to say your attitude in itself doesn't reach my standards. I suggest getting a referral to a psychologist in order to sort your head out....like that famous horses name you need an Attitude Adjuster post haste IMO

[tamborine]

Wrong category....try animals or see a vet

[gulliver1]

New Judge will be along soon to advise you, he is very good at giving other people advice,

[emmie]

no he won't post on this thread, not his cup of cha don't ya know.