Jack - // Andy Hughes- women do care about looks a lot, especially young women in their early twenties. A lot of women do ‘virtue signalling’ in which they claim to go for personality over looks, but it’s a big lie. If a 5ft 4 bald headed fat guy with a poorly structured face and big bulging eyes approached a woman and tried chatting her up, she would quickly make an excuse to leave and tell her friends she was approached by a creep, even though he might have been the nicest man in the world. Now if a 6ft 2 man with a chiseled jawline, head of thick dark hair, Hunter eyes and a face like Leonardo DiCaprio approached a woman, do you really think she would be so quick to leave and call him a creep? Absolutely not! Watch a YouTube channel called ‘wheat waffles’ and it explains all of this excellently //
I think you do women a diservice Jack.
I can only reiterate that women who lack the manners and maturity to go beyond instant images are not worth bothering with.
For the record, Carlo Ponti, the Italian film director, fitted your description of a 'creep' perfectly, and he was happily married to Sophia Loren, one of the most beautiful women who ever lived and who could have had her pick of any men alive.
The appeal of looks fades over time, personality and humour last for ever.