sore?!?!

[charisma--]

is anyone else ever sore after a night at their boyfriends house?!? i always need a day to recover !!! why am i still hurting?

[honkytonkgal]

just one solution keep your legs crossed

[jno]

not enough lubrication perhaps? If you're not manufacturing enough yourself (everyone's different), you can get it from Boots. Or perhaps he's just over-energetic? You could always ask him to slow down a bit. It isn't supposed to hurt, it's for pleasure - yours as well as his.

[charisma--]

haha we always use lube, it makes a huge difference using a condom too, that helps make it smoother...i can only feel pleasure if hes using his hands on me at the same time, does anyone else feel like this?
wasnt it sposed to stop hurting the first few times lol

[sammd]

Could be related to his size.

[jno]

that's normal - men get most of their pleasure direct from the penis, which is why they hammer away as long as they can, but women get theirs mainly from the clitoris, which often gets no stimulation at all during the hammering away, but is much more accessible to hands.

Tough call for you - do you get more pleasure from doing it than pain the next day? If more pain, you may gradually find yourself going off it - which might give your boyfriend reason to try changing his technique a bit. Like I said, slow and easy may give him just as much pleasure while not leaving you saddle-sore.

[Drisgirl]

I think we've all had a John Wayne walk:)

[Minxie]

maybe its me, but answerbank really need these sort of question?

[Minxie]

type that in again!

Does answerbank really need these sort of questions? Last night we had someone asking about what they fantasise sexually. Who cares? Thought this site was a family site. If you are sore Charisma, then why tell us about it? We dont care.

[noxlumos]

Minxie I don't think this question is in the same league as the question about your sexual fantasies.This girl is clearly sexually inexperienced and is asking why she still hurts the next day after she's had sex.I think that's resonable, this is the body and soul section and it's hardly a corrupting question and hasn't had any corrupting answers, so where's the problem?

charisma everything jno said is eprfectly right, you need to relax and your partner needs to be a bit steadier and you'll find this will help a lot.

[dancealot13]

Minxie- I think its very rude of you to make a comment like that to someones question. Sex is a part of life, and if you don't want to hear about it, then dont continue to read the question.

Charisma- Just make sure you're getting pleasure from sex with your boyfriend, he shouldn't be "banging" you. It's one thing to be aggressive, but you really should never need a DAY to recover. Also just as a precaution- You may want to check out a doctor regarding this, becuase you could have something else goin' on.

[alijangra]

I agree that you should maybe get checked out. When you say 'night at their boyfriends' do you mean at it all night? If thats the case you may well be sore!!

I dont know how old you are, but I can also recall me and my friends complaining of being uncomfortable for a day or two when we were new to the whole thing!