Help me!!!

[leanne2006]

I met this man a few months ago, and have met up with him every few weeks since for some sweet loving (if you know what I mean?). However, I think I may have fallen for him, we text regularly but I need some advice on how to approach the subject of possibly making the relationship more than just this!! I don't want to scare him off, what shall I do??

[Rubyrose]

Uh oh! A f*ck buddy is always a bad idea for a woman (unless she is involved with someone else). Women tend to have sex with emotions, whilst a man can have sex without any emotions entangled at all! Best thing to do is arrange to meet him again.. but don't do what you normally do and just meet for sex at one of anothers house.. ask if he wants to go to dinner.. or have a drink. Make it a proper date and tell him how you feel. :o)

[Dan Glebitts]

It seems u have been struck by one of Cupids many arrows. Lets hope he has too. Just continue like you are (seems to be going well) possibly increase the level of intimacy (did that make sense?), maybe go out for a romantic meal or have a picnic in this lovely weather we r having at the moment. good luck ;-)

[ICEMANSAV]

Try and make your feelings known, although I feel he has what he wants right now, and changing it with emotional attachment won't appeal to him much.

[Rubyrose]

Icemansav is right.. This guy has it good right now. Why would he want to trade that in when he is getting the sex and the freedom. If he doesn't want to be with you then pull back from him. Don't continue to let him have his cake and eat it. Most women (me included, but we can't help it) think that if a guy doesn't want us we shall keep trying and giving more and more but at the end of the day.. how can he miss you, if you are still there? If you pull away.. guaranteed he will miss you and come after you!

[JenniferG]

well i think he's prob got the wrong impression of what you want from him by now, i think you should try to suggest to go out for a drink or something and see how he reacts to wanting to spend time with you other then in bed. if it goes well carry on going out and take it from there. the more you see him the more you can work your charms on him!

[asteroid99]

As others have said, ask him to do something other than sweet loving, such as going for a meal, and see what his reaction is. If he seems up for seeing you out of the bedroom it probably means he's interested in a more serious relationship.