relationships... am i moving too fast??

[littlemissx]

i met a guy in jan... we started seeing eachother then decided neither of us wanted to be in a realtionship so split but remained friends,... after about 2 weeks we decided we couldnt cope with just friends and got back together in which time we have now just brought a place together... not going to be in for another 6 weeks but even then i will have only known him a total of 6 months.... i love him to bits but in your opinions am i moving too fast?? all thoughts appreciated x

[boobesque]

i moved in with my dp after 4 months together, at that point i had only know him 2 months and we had only seen eachother once a week! We rent our house but are still together now and have been living together for 2 years and are expecting a baby now so if it feels right go for it!

Can i also add my mum went on her first date with my dad and moved in that night and never left, they married after 6 months and have been married for 20 years on 6th june!

[miss_me]

if your both happy then there shouldnt be a problem, People think they move too fast but why not? At the end of the day people break up after 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 years 20 years. There is always going to be people that think its too fast but its only important what you and him feel. Sometimes things are just 'right.'

If you've found love and happiness and you both feel the same then hold on to it cuz its not easy too find

[Le Chat]

No, you are not moving too fast!

[gill3891]

I think if your following your heart, then you can't go wrong really. I know people may think you have committed to you boyfriend too soon, I think, however, that if you feel you love him and you think it will last, then you;'ve defo made the right choice! At the end of the day, how long do you wait?! you could be with a guy for like 5 years and still not know if you wana commit to them by moving in together!

Really, how hard would it be to sell a house anyway! I'm assuming you mean you have bought a house together, and if I'm right in assuming that, if the worst comes to the worst then what would stop you guys from selling?.......

[~Wingnut~]

I more or less moved in with my hubby straight away when we first met. I was on work placement for a year away from home and he lived 4 doors down! Our eyes met over a crowded social club and we have been inseperable ever since (it will be our 7th Wedding anniversary in May). It all just seemed to move along nicely and we never really discussed living together it just happened.

My Dad died 8 years ago and after 3 years my Mum met someone else, totally out of the blue, they were both shocked at how quickly they fell for each other and about 3 months later they married.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, lifes too short, if it feels right and it's what you want, go for it! Why should time play apart if it feels right :o)

[Rubyrose]

In my opinion.. Yes.. but it doesn't mean you have to stop. I was with my ex 5yrs and we moved in together once we had been together 4yrs. We broke up a year later! I think it is very soon but its your choice. I wish you good luck. xx

[rugeleyboy]

me and the present Mrs rugeleyboy moved in together after 1 month together, we have now been together 8 years,been married for 4 and got 2 beautiful kids!!

so in my opinion............ yes, your moving to fast!!!

[shaneystar2]

I married Mr S .after six weeks and we are still together nearly 35 years later. Only you can know what's right for you and how you feel.Good luck for the future .

[Rubyrose]

Each relationship has its own timescale. You will know if you are doing the right thing. Just follow your heart. :o)

[kazzianne]

my boyfriend moved in with me after knowing him for just 4 weeks,and we are still together nearly 2 years later.Everybody said we were rushing things and it wouldnt work,but we have proved everybody wrong,so you go for it!