men and arrogance

[nursecarla]

why do men not realise that being this way actually reduces their chances of "pulling" they go on about how much they earn, what car they drive, what amazing hobbies they do, who cares? i prefer sensitive kind and understated any time x

[dot.hawkes]

hi carla, where can we find them though? my bloke is obsessed with all things aquatic and it is not as if I would or could join in! the more thoughtful the bloke the easiest it is for everyone, why don't most see that?

[nursecarla]

will you stop saying hi :))) x i dont think they exist any more dot :( talking to this guy at work he looked great then he opened his mouth and it was the same old same old :( x

[lia*]

do you think it might be their testosterone that's talking?

[dot.hawkes]

it's like an animal in the wild, like a stag, they have to show off and prance about and make a big song and dance about their perfect stature and massive, antlers? so I guess a fast car is the antlers? maybe?

[ludwig]

Carla, I earn fcuk all, drive a crappy car and have no hobbies. I'm really sensitive though. Any chance of a date?

[nursecarla]

well you have made a good start ludwig :) x

[dot.hawkes]

what do you actually like in a bloke Carla, apart from sensitivity?

[Dan Glebitts]

i once punched a guy in the face fr looking at my lambo and i drove off to watch the footy and drink beer.... I enjoy a good one night stand when i get the chance and i also beat three men up with one finger! So, ladies have i pulled?

[nursecarla]

brooding, a tiny bit of menace but primarily kind thoughtful intelligent and humble :) looks are a bonus but not particularly important x x

[rugeleyboy]

thats me!!............

[dot.hawkes]

that all Carla? Best of luck with that then? ;)

what's a lambo? Is it like a back brace?

[bobtheturkey]

lamborghini dorothy Italian sports car makers the countach is my 3rd fav car ever :)

[dot.hawkes]

Oh right, i knew that didn't I? ?

[dot.hawkes]

what is your favourite car then Carla? Mine is really a mini but they are very expensive

[rugeleyboy]

and they have little boots!!

[dot.hawkes]

why what size are you rugeley?

[jno]

well it obviously reduces their chances of pulling you nursecarla, but I guess the approach works more often than not, otherwise you can bet men would change it. I've read bits of research that suggest women do rate income highly (because it means economic comfort for them and their children), and it must make sense to tell prospective partners what your hobbies are, to stop them rolling on the floor howling 'You do what??' later on.

[undercovers]

i don't have the ability to carry off the over the top arrogance really, but the people that do certainly have a good pulling ability when it comes to one night stands, and for most of these guys this is what they want... where they have trouble though is long term relationships (but someone is always willing to "comfort" them after their latest break up so they never seem that cut up about it)

[noxlumos]

It cuts two ways though, if you pull up in a Transit pick up (unless they're looking for a bit of rough) some women wouldn't spit on you, but if you turn up in an Aston Martin then your automatically a God.Now That's as irritating as any male posing that goes on and I know that it does because I've done it myself and the reason is for one night stands it works. If you were out looking for a wife you wouldn't be like that ( my wife would kill me if I came any macho ******** with her) but nightclub pickups gravitate to the aggressive sportscar driving neanderthal on an alarmingly regular basis.Just as I imagine men gravitate to bimbo's for one night stands and intelligent, articulate women for partners.

[*Zeus*]

Hi Bobina