cheering up

[blond_law]

hey guys

i need cheering up have had a v bad weekend. I wrote a post last fri about my ridiculous ex who stormed out the pub when i turned up, well i saw him on sunday and he tried to talk and be friendly with me - FREAK!! one min storming out the pub coz of me and now wanting to be my mate - any ideas??? and secondly, if anyone is from east sussex on here they may have heard about a attempted robbery in battle, it turns out it was one of my mates. I feel physically sick and completely shocked - u think u know people!!! so i'm in desperate need of cheering up today!!

[flipflop104]

Oh my, you have had a poor time this weekend.

As for your ex, just don't give him the time of day. He's obviously a bit psycho - just avoid him and if he;s in the same pub as you don't make eye contact and don't sit anywhere near him. If he approaches yu, say excuse me and go to the toilet/bar/talk to other friends or something similar.

I'm not from East Sussex so I don't know about the robbery you describe.

Hope you're feeling a bit cheerier soon though. Chin up lass... (or lad)

[blond_law]

thanks flipflop104. People can just really suprise u can't they! U think u know peopl and u really don't!

When my ex came to talk to me i just walked off and left him in half convo hahaha. Think he was a bit suprised really his girlf didn't look that impressed either! And as for my mate i just can't get over it. I really thought he was a decent fella - how wrong!!

[flipflop104]

Well, well done for walking away form your ex. I would have loved to have seen his face - stay strong.

I don't understand your other worry. Is it that someone you knew comiited a crime?

[4getmenot]

How can the ex win. Do you want him to talk to you or do you want him to walk out. I didnt read post Friday but I dont get it. And as for the attempted robbery. Dont be freinds with them again :-) These are both things other people have done. Live for yourself and cheer up :-) :-)

[blond_law]

all i meant with the ex is i don't understand how one minute u storm out a pub and text the people i was with saying that they had sold him out because they are friends with me and then 2 days later actually want to talk to me and be friends himself - it just doesn't make sense to me. and re the robbery, i have known this man for years, we spent time together, i'm just findign it hard to think that he led this doub;e life and could actually be involved in something that could have harmed another person. its shocking

[4getmenot]

maybe after storming out he realises that he was stupid and should just along with you all so he tried being nice now. But fair enough if you cant give him a second chance. And as for the mate and the robbery everyone has one secret or another from their mates. But hey thats a bit of a big one. :-)