Sex!

[nicnicnic]

Bit of a random question, but how long would you personally leave it before you slept with a new partner for the first time? Just asking as a matter of interest really!!
Thanks

[David H]

As long as it takes for the right answer...

[funkymoped]

i think it all comes down to the price ! now i wouldnt pay more than a fiver. some "wealthy" types may stretch to a tenner, but my limit is a fiver !!!! so to answer the question, as soon as the money changes hands !

[helliebobs]

I made my now-husband wait about a month I think before I slept with him to make sure he was serious about me! Mind you, I think I was bit of a tease...

[ktlou]

I waited 6 months before I slept with my bf - and both of us are really glad we waited that long! The anticipation made it all worth the wait and we've been together almost 5 years now!! But I do think it's down to each individual person - I don't think it makes you a slapper/lad if you sleep with someone on a first date (unless it's just a one night stand). If you feel happy and comfortable with that person, then why not?? Everyone has their own time scale for getting to know someone, some people fall in love very quickly, for others it takes a lot longer! Do it when YOU feel ready nicnicnic!!

[doglady]

2 dates. I'm a slapper.

[Kate77]

if you are serious about the new partner - wait until s/he pounces on you! quite a few of my friends feel that around 3-4 dates, but i personally would rather wait a month or so, obviously a little bit of this and that inbetween the big night of passion would help- afterall we dont want to look that disappointed when we pull down his pants to reveal a tiny penis - ;-)