Do men always want just one thing?

[girlylesbian]

Do men always want just one thing? Someone I know has been talking to a very rich man and this man has offered to take her to lots of lovely places and give her loads of gifts.He says on the phone that he just wants her to be his friend but she is very pretty and he has seen a picture of her.So what I was wondering.Could he be being honest?Or is it just a rich man trying to sleep with a lesbian ? It would be a shame for her to miss out on so much just because she THINKS he might be dishonest and if she does not want to sleep with him she can just say so and he will have to put up with it.

[girlylesbian]

Yes but by the time I go to the US Open I will not be we are not going until the september after this september (very convenient he he).I guess what you are saying is I could get raped I could not and you know what I could have got raped going to Tesco this morning!People have to take risks in life and I think he is a really decent man and only wants me as a friend.I think most of you agree with me there.

[Pippa68]

Oh yeah steviep ~ she reckons the 'working class' are unpredictable..

[girlylesbian]

Very true there.Well educated does not mean he is safe.Silly me as always.Well I have actually had some really good replies.Redcrx you have plesently surprised me!When you say you hope he rapes me I presume you are joking! I would not wish my worst enemy to get raped!

[4getmenot]

Dont agree with me girly people might think we're mates. I still dont like you. And yer as redcrx said get daddy to buy them

[redcrx]

yes a woman can get raped anywhere at any time and its not a matter to be taken lightly. However you asked the question and you are not gonna take any advice, so why ask it?

You are putting yourself in a position where you will be alone with a man you dont know in a different country and away from family and yet to akin it to going to the chances of being attacked on a walk to supermarket!!?

Say yes, hopefully by the time it comes to taking you (probably by this september really) he will see you for the shallow individual you really are. perhaps he may even see your lies in action and will realise hes better off without.

[Backdrifter]

For F***'S sake will there ever be an end to these tedious posts asking why "men" always do this and do "men" always do that, blah blah blah.

There are probably nearly 30 million men in the UK alone. How can people ever hope to get sensible meaningful answers to such ludicrous questions?

[Pippa68]

In your question you state that he has 'seen a picture of her' then go on to say you have met...

It is rather indicative that you use yourself as another person, given your multiple personality disorder.

Does your friend have a nice big bump yet?

[girlylesbian]

I said it was a friend because I knew if I said it was me I would not get sensible answers and if I said it was a friend you might give me sensible answers.And yes I will listen to what you say and take it in so do not assume I am not listening.I AM!!!!

[4getmenot]

Ok so I'm as curious as Pippa now. whats happening about the baby now, what did you do about the bleedin?

[annavc]

I want to know that too. How are the twins?

[teag1rl]

I'm curious too. How is that going?

[4getmenot]

You know you cant fly to New York if pregnant

[girlylesbian]

Yes I will have had the baby by the time we are going.I am fine thanks the bleeding was nothing serious apparently it is quite common to have bleeding during pregnany but it is still best to have it checked out.I am having twins as I thought but my plan of giving my babies away is not really going as I hoped .I have changed my mind I do not think I could ever do it! But who knows and I prefer not to talk about my pregnany it only upsets me.

[4getmenot]

Aaaaahh Shut Up. Blah blah blah blah blah

[redcrx]

so what did they put the bleeding down to?

[4getmenot]

Trying to escape would be my bet

[girlylesbian]

I did not go to hospital the bleeding stopped just minutes after it had started it was just a scare and this has what to do with my question?Just answer the f****** question!

[caz21]

Ooh language! you'll not make friends that way dear!

[redcrx]

you just said its best to get it checked out and yet you didnt.

[4getmenot]

We did and then we asked about babies you're the one that answered